There are no Such Neighbors in Colonies. Every Person is busy in Their own World.

4 days ago (Edited)

Hi Hivelearners friends.

I have spent 25 years of my life in such a place where neighbors valued each other a lot, loved each other, and helped each other in times of need. But with time, all of us have to change. Now, times are changing in our city and every person is taking their own house in the colony. In 2020, we also decided here that we will change our house now and change our lifestyle. But we did not know about the colony before that the people here are completely living in their own world and loving their own world.

So, what I have to say here is that when we lived such a life there, when we were in trouble, the neighbors supported us. When they were in trouble, we supported each other. We celebrated Eid together. We loved each other. But this does not happen at all in the colony. Here, people get out in their cars and come back and go to their homes. There is a special reason for this. It's that mobile phones have distanced us from each other. What is the difference between living in this neighborhood and this colony?

Today we are going to discuss all these things in this post. There were many benefits in the neighborhood because we knew that these are our neighbors, they have been with us since childhood and we knew everything about their house. They knew about us that we all belong to a good family, no one has any criminal background and each person is living their own life, loves each other, meets each other in difficult times.

[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/people-sitting-on-gray-concrete-bench-during-daytime-cAZKcDUEf1k)

And there was a scene that their children were also our friends and we met them every night. But when we came here in 2020, first of all, after coming here, we distributed the sweets that were there in our neighborhood so that we could love each other, but that did not happen. Even after that, every person is busy with their own life here because today we are seeing that people are working more online, so they sleep during the day and go out during the night.

There is so much silence in the colony that even if there is a problem in the house next door, we do not know and how many days pass and then we find out. Here I tell you an incident from March or when my friends and I were taken from us at gunpoint and this incident happened outside the gate of our house and we tried to tell the neighbors but no one was available because everyone is busy in their own house.

Then later when we met them in the mosque after a few days, we told them that you should also be careful because there are thieves here at this time who come at night and they get a little chance and they take everything out of the pockets. It took us a long time to tell them this because we only meet them after a long time. Everyone is busy in their own lives in the colony. So what I'm saying is that if you have a habit of being attached to people, then you shouldn't come to the colony and should stay in the neighborhood where you've spent your entire life.

[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/brown-wooden-board-with-hello-neighbor-come-on-in-signage-0rd-uBuds-g)

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Djbravo real name is Asad-chughtai and i am from Pakistan. Asad-chughtai is an writer, blogger, crypto trader, and nature lover. My goal is to share these special places and natural sights with all of you.