I TRY. LOH #251

I would say I have a lot of values I hold to heart that have helped me go on in life; in fact, it is still helping me to date. One funny one is, no matter how angry I am, I don't insult the next person with raw, rude, or vulgar words. It is basically "I would not do unto you what will piss me off if done to me". It is as simple as that, also the reason why I don't like this whole thing is because it seems awful, and at some point it kills faster than bullets. It may not be physical death but it does a lot, so you will never find me by mistake doing that.

I'm not trying to say those who do are bad people or that they are demons, it's just that I would never be caught doing that, it's just what works for me.

Growing up I did hear a lot of people say "na who go spoil go spoil" meaning anybody that goes wayward has themselves to blame. One thing I have held up to from when I was a child till now, even while I was in the university is that once it's past 6 I am going nowhere, the only thing that will force me out is hunger (cause I love food) apart from that nothing else.

It is what I have decided to stand by to date and it's has saved me a lot of times, I just believe you cannot force me to where I don't want to go to. (It's economical too 😜 I don't have to spend unnecessarily). My father would say "nobody will come to your house to arrest you if you don't go about looking for what's not looking for you". In all I would say I'm hardly influenced, no matter what you do, although good things influence me but not bad things.

Lastly, you will never find me trying to fit in or feel among, I no get strength. The only time I tried it it backfired so I don't even care, I love my solo life, that does not mean I don't interact with others but if I as much as get a breeze that I'm not wanted. I move.

Thanks for stopping by my blog. See you soon. 🤗

peace out ✌️

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I love your principles, well done.
Not everyone has the strength to feel among or to belong. Your dad is also right, when you mind your business trouble won't find you.

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I wish more people would speak kinder to others, hurtful words, can really cut deep.
It sounds like you are very comfortable with who you are and that you are doing what is best for you xx

!LADY

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