WHAT BEING BROKE REALLY MEANS TO ME

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I'm super excited to participate in this week's engagement ,i choosed to write on the topic: "What brong broke means". I hope you enjoy and learn as you read.

The idea of being broke has always been debated, and I have come to realize that it means different things to different people. Some see it as having no money at all, while others think of it as the inability to afford luxuries. Personally, I see being broke as a stage in life when you simply cannot meet your basic needs or financial responsibilities. It is not just about holding an empty wallet—it is about being in a place where money is so scarce that even small decisions become heavy burdens.

For me, being broke is when I start worrying about the simplest things, like whether I can afford to eat a proper meal, pay for transport, or recharge my phone to make an important call. When I reach that point, I know I am truly broke. It is more than just lacking cash in the moment—it is the stress and frustration that come from being unable to function comfortably in daily life.

The truth is, being broke is a relative experience. A student might say they are broke if they have less than a few hundred naira, because that amount cannot buy food or cover transport. But for an adult with bills and family responsibilities, being broke might mean having less than enough money to pay rent or clear debts. This shows that the definition of being broke depends on one’s stage of life and financial commitments.

I remember a personal experience that really opened my eyes to what it means to be broke. After finishing school, I spent months looking for a job. I had no stable income, and the little I got from side jobs was never enough. One week, I was down to less than one dollar in my wallet. I had an important interview to attend, but I couldn’t afford the transport fare. I ended up walking a long distance under the hot sun just to get there. By the time I arrived, I was exhausted, and I didn’t even perform as well as I had hoped. That experience taught me that being broke isn’t only about money—it is also about the opportunities you lose because your financial situation holds you back.

Being broke also affects the mind and emotions. It comes with shame, worry, and sometimes isolation. You start avoiding social gatherings because you don’t want to feel out of place or unable to contribute. It affects your self-confidence and makes you question your worth. In that sense, being broke is both a financial struggle and an emotional battle.

Still, I believe that being broke is not a permanent condition. Many of us have passed through that stage, and though it is tough, it can teach valuable lessons. Being broke forces you to think differently about money, to plan better, and to understand the importance of saving and building multiple income sources. It makes you appreciate even the smallest resources you have, and it gives you the determination to fight for a better financial future.

In the end, I would define being broke as the inability to meet your essential needs and responsibilities without worry or struggle. While the exact meaning depends on a person’s situation, the feelings of stress and limitation are the same for everyone. Though it is never pleasant, being broke can serve as a turning point—a reminder to stay disciplined, to value money, and to work towards financial stability.

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