Recipe for Enjoyment LOH #238

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Do you prefer to travel alone, with friends or family?

Am just looking at myself, trying to think if I would love traveling alone, with friend or family, am still curious but I think my intovertedness and social anxiety will not let me to travel alone and enjoy it to it's fullest.

Yes am an introvert who loves being in my own little bubble, without being distracted but I don't really see the essence of traveling and not enjoying that beautiful place with someone close to me.

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One of my primary concern about traveling alone is the lack of accountability, when traveling with others i feel there is this motivation and drive to participate, visit attractions.
The truth is, even if I do travel, I might end up not doing anything, i might end up sleeping all day watching movies and scrolling through tiktoks and the likes.

So basically, motivation would be needed for me to even step out of my hotel room , i would actually need someone to tell me all the itenary and make everything available and planned out.

What is the essence of enjoying yourself alone while on vacation when you can share it with family and friends and make great memories out of it.

The question "would I prefer to travel alone" is already out of the equation, it's between family and friend, choosing either depends on the kind of place I plan to go.

If am traveling to The United state of America for instance, I know Las Vegas one of the cities in Nevada over there, I know it's a place with many grown up activities like the casinos, clubs and the likes, basically the night life entertainment scene is top notch, with all this mentioned, I would rather go with a friend.

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if am going to walt Disney world Resort in Florida, or Disney land which allows me to see our favorite animated characters in display, to see the magic kingdom, this! i would rather go with my family for sure.

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Yes I watch alot of movies so I get to see little bit of what each state have to offer in their own beautiful way plus am very curious about other countries besides mine.

Again, travelling alone can also bring feelings of loneliness and disconnection. Yes it's true that traveling alone can provide opportunities for self-reflection and all but it can also lead to feeling of isolation for me. Since am already struggling with Social anxiety and the feeling of awkwardness in new situations, i will definitely need some familiar faces around me.

Thank you for stopping by!!

@ tehilah ♥



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When you are introverted, many people do not understand why you do not enjoy traveling. I believe that everyone has a personality that should be respected 😊
!LADY

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Exactly, I feel so seen with this comment.

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I've been to Disneyland with my family when I was very young and after a totally fun day with unlimited access and rides I was beyond exhausted! My Father paid for this family vacation many years ago, so to do what we did today according to Google AI is $230USD, not bad. I thought it be more.
Thanks for sharing @tehilah
!LADY

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For you to be that exhausted, I know you had a very good time.i think $230USD is not that bad too but since I will be going from a far different country, I think I will be spending much more money though.

Thank you so much ♥

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