LOH- CONTEST #262; Household Responsibilities and care in our home.

Welcome to my blog @ladies of Hive. This is my first time posting in this community, and i am so excited to join this week's contest and share my home experience.

In many homes, the sharing of household responsibilities still reflects the traditional pattern and values where the men are seen as providers and heads of the family, handling financial matters, while women are expected to take care of the home and children.
But in our today's world more woman are working to support their families both financially and other wise, this ideology has become emotionally draining for many women especially where there are meant to do everything without a single help.
Despite these changes, society still tends to hold on to the old pattern of gender based roles rather than adapting to the realities of life.

In my home, taking responsibility has never followed a fixed pattern. Personally, I am not an outdoor person, and I value my personal space and prefer keeping it neat, organized, and comfortable.
However, when I got married, I had to adjust and take on new responsibilities, including running errands and fixing things for our home after work.
Things changed even more when I began having children. I could no longer manage all the chores such as cooking, cleaning, and shopping alone. During this period, my husband became a strong pillar of support. Despite his busy schedule, he willingly helped with house chores . Our home has continued to thrive because we have learned to identify gaps and fill them together as a team both financially and in getting the chores done.

This is the picture of my house earlier this morning sharing our chores today. While my husband was fixing breakfast, i was doing the laundry, which makes our work easier.

The main fact about whose those the housechores in my home is the ability to structure our home to suit our different abilities, in that way this help us to adjust and render help as well as show kindness where necessary.


Generally, sharing household duties remains a challenge due to expectations and the training that we had received earlier in life that women should manage the home. Yet, with today’s realities, most women also contribute financially. Therefore, it is only fair that both partners share responsibilities because life can get easier and better when couples support each other and take turns and not when duties are divided strictly without consideration.
Thank you for stopping by my blog, @pascalukandy
All pictures are mine from my gallery.
This is my entry for LOH-contest #262.