Ladies of Hive Community Contest #263 What We Teach Our Children (Ing/Esp)
I haven't participated in the @ladiesofhive community contest for several months, and today I wanted to return to a community that helped me a lot when I was starting out. If you want to participate, here's the invitation. This week's questions make me a little thoughtful, especially since I don't have children, but I still wanted to take the time to answer them because they're quite interesting.
- What do you consider to be the most important lessons we should teach our children?
One of the first lessons I will teach my son is to be independent. I don't want them to grow up depending on someone else or having to wait for someone else to solve their problems, because if I am no longer there for them or when they grow up and have to be on their own, they won't know how to defend themselves. I have seen this happen quite often, so I prefer that this be their first lesson, along with knowing that they must work for what they want and not wait or beg for someone else to give them something. They will not lack a mother's love, but they must learn to fight their own battles.
- Do you think that failure is less, equally, or more important than success in life, and why?
I think that in order to be successful, you have to fail, and you learn from failure. That's why I believe that failure is just as important. We have to go through different stages to achieve success, and failure is one of them. What we have to do is learn to take advantage of opportunities and learn from them. After all, what good is success if you don't know how to maintain it?
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Hace varios meses que no participo en el concurso de la comunidad de @ladiesofhive y hoy quise volver a una comunidad donde me ayudó mucho en mis inicios este si deseas participar por acá te dejo la invitación está semana las preguntas me ponen algo pensativa sobre todo a mí que no tengo hijos, aún así quise tomarme el tiempo para responderla ya que es bastante interesante.
- ¿Cuáles considera que son las lecciones más importantes que debemos enseñar a nuestros hijos?
Una de las primeras lecciones que le enseñare a mi hijo es hacer independiente, no quiero que crezcan dependiendo de alguien o teniendo que esperar por una persona que le resuelva la vida, ya que si en algún momento yo les llegase a faltar o cuando crezcan y les toque estar solos no sepan defenderse ya que es un caso que he visto bastante seguido por eso prefiero que ese sea su primera lección igual que sepan que deben trabajar por lo que quieren y no esperar o mendigar para que alguien les dé algo. El amor de madre no les faltará pero ellos deben aprender a luchar sus propias batallas.
- ¿Considera que fracasar es menos, igual o más importante que tener éxito en la vida y por qué?
Pienso que para tener exito hay que fracasar y de los fracaso se aprende es por eso que considero que fracasar es igual de importante, debemos pasar por diferentes etapas para llegar al éxito y el fracaso es una de ellas, lo que debemos es aprender aprovechar las oportunidades y obtener alguna enseñanza. Ya que de que serviría el éxito si no sabes mantenerlo.
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Who knows when you may be blessed with children or with nieces and nephews for that matter, It wouldn't hurt to think about it though. I'm hoping for grand children at this time. Meanwhile, there's still a big world out there.
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I hope you will soon have the joy of having grandchildren and enjoying that beautiful stage of life.
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Aunque no tienes hijos, me parece algo muy acertado, que los hijos aprendan a no depender de alguien y que sepan saber que las cosas deben ser ganadas con méritos propios y no estar esperando a que tienen la obligacion de dárselo, solo porque se lo merecen, ya lo que se logra con esfuerzo, es lo que más se valora.
El fracaso no es malo, ya que de el aprendemos, y así el logro tiene más sactifacion, ya que no fue fácil, pero se consiguió. Fue un gusto leerte, suerte en el concurso y bendiciones 🙏🏼
El fracaso es la mejor forma para aprender, debemos darnos cuenta que aunque fracasemos no podemos quedarnos estancados y más bien tomarlo de impulso para llegar más lejos.
There is that wonderful saying, that "it takes a village to raise a child", so even if you don't have children yourself, I am sure there are some in your life, so even being around children, you have the opportunity to share some valuable life lessons with them. Being independent is certainly a good one.
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I have had the opportunity to spend time with children and even see how they are raised, and that has taught me that, even though it hurts us, one of the best ways to show love to a child is to teach them to be independent.