Ladies of Hive Community Contest #245|“I told you so.”

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No sé si "Te lo dije" es la contraparte de "lo sabía" ja,ja,ja. En mi caso nadie o pocos me decían las cosas, seguro no escuchaba bien, pero de verdad, todos sabían lo que me podía pasar menos yo.
La juventud necesita de algo más para poder ser obediente, pero ya estamos acostumbrados de que cuando pasan las cosas es que en algunos momentos de nuestra vida logramos aprender algo. No es sencillo caminar con paso firme cuando sientes que la mesa que tienes le faltan dos patas, no tienes el equilibrio necesario para sostener tantas situaciones que no sabes cómo enfrentarlas.
Cada vez que escuchaba "te lo dije" o "lo sabía" me quedaba desconcertada, era algo que me dejaba paralizada, ahora me pregunto ¿cómo lo sabía? ¿Cuándo me lo dijo?
Jamás diría esa frase a nadie, siento que es cruel ver a alguien en alguna situación difícil y encima decirle eso, me sonreí, pero esa frase es para que alguien débil emocionalmente pueda hasta pensar en suicidarse y llegar a dar ese paso. Esto para muchos pensaran que es una exageración, pero de verdad esa frase según el tono puede ser algo cruel.
Se utiliza en situaciones amistosas, serias, otras con tono muy fuerte y hasta podemos decir que se ha popularizado en diversas culturas. El tono juega un papel importante, me gusta más el tono juguetón, hace que recuerde a mis amistades, también a mi tía, pero su tono era frustrante. También recuerdo a mi padre con una voz más seria.
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I don't know if “I told you so” is the counterpart of “I knew it” ha,ha,ha. In my case no one or few people told me things, I was probably not listening well, but really, everyone knew what could happen to me except me.
Youth needs something more to be obedient, but we are already used to the fact that when things happen is that in some moments of our life we manage to learn something. It is not easy to walk with a firm step when you feel that the table you have is missing two legs, you do not have the necessary balance to support so many situations that you do not know how to face them.
Every time I heard “I told you so” or “I knew it” I was bewildered, it was something that left me paralyzed, now I ask myself how did he know it? When did he tell me?
I would never say that phrase to anyone, I feel it is cruel to see someone in a difficult situation and tell them that, I smiled, but that phrase is so that someone emotionally weak can even think about suicide and take that step. This for many people will think that it is an exaggeration, but really that phrase depending on the tone can be something cruel.
It is used in friendly situations, serious, others with a very strong tone and we can even say that it has become popular in various cultures. The tone plays an important role, I like more the playful tone, it makes me remember my friends, also my aunt, but her tone was frustrating. I also remember my father with a more serious voice.
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I agree with you, when things happen is that in some moments of our life we learn something
Saying the phrase to someone who is going through a difficult situation is to be careful, as you say, if it is someone emotionally weak can even think of the worst as suicide and yes, depending on the tone can be something cruel, thanks for sharing your experiences friend,
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You're right, the tone of voice plays a massive role. It's transforming the phrase from playful to deeply frustrating or even cruel. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful reflections 💖
Esta buena esa, lo sabía. Creo que a nadie le gusta ese te lo dije. Pero en los jóvenes a veces hace mucha falta. Muchísimo éxito y un abrazo.
That's a good one, I knew it. I don't think anyone likes that "I told you so." But sometimes it's sorely needed in young people. Much success, and a hug.
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