How many excuses did I make? | LOH #239 contest week

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Greetings ladies and welcome once again to this dynamic, to answer the questions that many of the women in the community are asking. On this occasion, I chose to answer just one, so here it is:

Saludos ladies, bienvenidas una vez más a esta dinámica, a responder las preguntas que se plantean muchas de las mujered de la comunidad, particularmente en esta ocasión elegí responder solo una, aquí va:


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You came to this world with a mission that only belongs to you and you chose, so I invite you to ask yourself what was missing to achieve those goals, how many excuses did you make?

I have imposter syndrome. I may know that I am good at some things and people around me or even at the jobs I have had have offered me opportunities in areas where I am good, but I rarely accept taking that step because I automatically start sabotaging myself by saying that I am not really good or that I am a fraud, that there are people much better than me.

One of the last things I wanted to do was study something specific because I wanted to learn it well and master it, but the idea of ​​going back to college and studying another degree to achieve that was always on my mind. But among the many excuses I gave myself were the one about college, the money, the time, the organization, and then thinking, what if I wasn't going to understand anything later? So I started getting discouraged, but it was a goal that was on my mind every day, and every day I kept answering the same thing. And I don't know, from one moment to the next, it suddenly happened that I told myself that there were other people who would do the impossible to achieve a goal, and that's when I started looking for other alternatives. I'm currently studying online at my own pace.

Viniste a este mundo con una misión que sólo te corresponde a ti y tú elegiste, por eso te invito a que te preguntes ¿qué te faltó para lograr esas metas?, ¿cuántas excusas pusiste?

Yo tengo el síndrome del impostor, puede que sepa que soy buena en algunas cosas y personas de mi entorno o incluso en los trabajos donde he estado me han ofrecido oportunidades en ámbitos donde soy buena pero rara vez acepto dar ese paso porque automáticamente me empiezo a sabotear diciendo que realmente no soy realmente buena o que soy un fraude, que hay personas mucho mejor que yo.

Una de las últimas cosas qué había querido hacer es estudiar algo en especifico porque quiero aprenderlo bien y dominarlo pero en mi mente siempre rondaba la idea de volver a la universidad y estudiar otra carrera para lograr eso pero entre muchas excusas que me puse estaba esa de la universidad, la del dinero, la del tiempo, la organización y luego pensar y si luego no iba a entender nada… Entonces me fui desanimando yo misma pero era un objetivo que todos los días rondaba mi cabeza y todos los días volvía a responderme lo mismo, y no sé, de un momento a otro de pronto sucedió que me dije a mi misma que habían otras personas que hacían hasta lo imposible para lograr un objetivo y fue cuando empecé a buscar otras alternativas, actualmente estoy estudiando online a mi propio ritmo.

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Saludos compañera, leerte fue como leerme un poco a mí, me identifico con lo del síndrome del impostor, pero bueno, hay que hacerle frente y no desaprovechar oportunidades por este tipo de inseguridades. En estos casos siempre pienso en esa gente que tiene puestos importantes, o personas del gobierno, y que ahí los tenes haciendo todo mal jajaja. Me alegra que hayas encontrado la manera de estudiar lo que querías, seguí así 🤗

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Yo también me pongo a pensar en eso y en muchas cosas más y trato de motivarme. Esto es como una maldición porque uno sabe que puede pero al mismo tiempo vas creando inseguridades

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I totally understand how you feel. I think seven out of every ten persons who dream big deal with imposter syndrome. Just can’t help how we feel. But you are taking steps, no matter how little, that's what matters.

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And that's what I'm trying to maintain, to keep moving forward and dissipate my own insecurities. It's complicated because it doesn't always work out for me, but I'm trying to get back on track quickly.

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Facing our own internal sabotage is not easy, as you say we are discouraging ourselves, the important thing is to have a clear goal, because if what you have in mind, is already a way to stimulate you, as you say, other people do the impossible to achieve them.
It's great that your decision to do so is to look for other alternatives, studying online at your own pace, I wish you much success in your goals,
!LADY
!PIZZA

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It also motivates me to see what other people who are perhaps similar to me achieve because it helps me dispel these negative thoughts, discipline myself, and stay focused.

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