Hi Hivelearners friends.
I hope you all are well, I am also well and my health is getting better now, so here is what I have to say about this topic, it is quite interesting and we are seeing such things happening in our family or in our area, so here I will start this topic from here that this is the effort of parents, every parent makes this effort to give their children a good upbringing so that in the future the child can develop and parents are the happiest in the world with the development of their children.
The rest of the world can never see us developing, they will always envy us and want us to never develop and never be equal to them. We have seen all these things happening with our own eyes at the age of 30, so that is why I am saying this. Well, we see that if parents are good and educated, then their children are also exactly the same, they read and write and then one day they become successful people and bring glory to their parents.
But we have seen some cases where parents are very good but their children cannot be good. They neither study well nor do all the other things. Then the world does not respect them. Here I have to say that the biggest reason for this is that parents do not take care of one thing in the beginning. They give every facility to their children, they make them sit in good schools, they give good tuitions, but they do not check with whom their children are friends.

[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/couple-embracing-child-on-modern-building-steps-SqKamqAVINw)
If those people are wrong, even if the parents are good and are giving good education, the children can never be successful again. When we have connections with the wrong people and our families don't even know, the end result will be that the hard work of our parents will also be wasted and no one will ever respect us. Now here we see that today's young generation is doing the same thing, the way they go to university, especially all the boys are smoking cigarettes,
Such an environment has been created for them, and many are also taking drugs, and their parents don't know what is going on in their university and what kind of life they are leading. The damage comes when their studies are over, then the parents come to know all these things. So what I have to say here is that we have seen this happening with our own eyes. Parents are educated and teach their children, but still the children don't listen to them and become disobedient.
I think the biggest reason for this is that their friends are not good. We spend most of our lives with our friends, whether in university or abroad. What I am saying here is that parents should also pay a little more attention to their children and should know how their friends are, with whom they meet every day. If the friends are good and the parents are also raising them well, then the children will definitely be successful.

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Here I have seen many such cases where parents are wrong but the children they have become quite intelligent and they do not get involved in wrong things at all and they try to believe that if we become educated today then the world will respect our parents and our parents will also get well. So here we have seen this in our area that there was a family whose parents were not right. The way there was a father who was addicted to drugs and alcohol and when he was drunk he would beat his wife.
Whenever the children see such things, their mental depression increases a lot. But we saw that all those children worked hard and completed their studies themselves and the benefit of this was that even today the parents were fighting with each other but their children have become successful children and there we see that their children are doing very good jobs because when we see all these things with our own eyes,
We can't believe it's happening in the world where parents are not paying attention to their children at all, but the children are still succeeding. He wants all the credit for this to go to his siblings because they must have made all these decisions together that we will try to study together in the future, pay for our studies together,

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And then after that we will try to stop our father from doing such things so that he too can become a good person and the society can respect him. Then there was a time when their father had also given up every drug for his children and his wife, and today he is living a good life and a good family in the entire neighborhood. Here we have seen both things happening with our own eyes. Some parents will have to change things.
If they are going to try to make their children successful, then they should try to see what kind of friends their children are. If they are good friends, then the future will definitely be good and successful. If they are not good friends, then we will not see our children succeeding in the same way. And here we have even seen people become addicted to drugs and their parents then stop paying attention to them.
Parents can see both cases everywhere, in their own area, in the neighborhood, and even on YouTube. Parents should also try to be like children with their children and understand them and never do it in such a way that they should never do bad things to their children in front of all their friends or relatives. They should always try to explain something to their children in private so that they do not feel that their parents are disrespecting them in front of everyone.

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Good point here dear friend @djbravo . Its not just sending our children to high tuition schools that matters but also checking in on them as to who are their friends.
Environmental factor like this can become a problem in the nearest future.
Thanks for sharing
Most welcome.
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Thanks alot for the support.