My life experience

Life is filled with ups and downs.Life mostly hits hard at adulthood.Where reality steps in.i will be sharing some of my life experience.You know something about life??
People say it's wise to learn from other people's mistake,but you know what? Life sometimes doesn't even give you the chance to learn from other people's mistakes or experience

I remember a time when i used to buy a particular market in one of big car spare market in abia state nigeria popularly known as "Alaoji or mgbuka".As that time i had no shop,so i had to squat with one of friends there.when i buy market i will pack it there till when i decides to sell it.
Until one day,after buying market, i decided to look if can still buy more but the day looked too dull,so i decided to sell off the one's i bought.
But right there,when i got to the shop everything was missing my working tools,my market and also my money i left there, Annoyed i asked the people whom i shared the shop with but they all declined never taking any of my properties.
It was then i realized my mistake. it was their warmth that made me trust them and i left my belongings in their care.maybe i had bought a locker to lockup my belongings i wouldn't have been looking for them.
Since then,i find diffcult in trusting anyone, whenever am ever dealing with anyone it's one foot in,one foot out.

And here's again, during a time in my college i lost my money for lunch,i was so famished as i had no breakfast that morning.
Finding alternatives,i had to beg one of the "rich kids" in my class to help me out.But after narrating my ordeal to him he kept mute as it sounded as if everything i narrated to him fell on deaf ears.i tried begging him but he screamed and shunned i should get out.
Feeling dejected,i left. it was up to three days after the event happened.The "rich kid' came running to me after school hours. Surprisedly he asked me to lend him money.My mind automically went to scenario three days back. I wanted a revenge for sure,but then,i reasoned that will make me no different from him,right there i gave him the money telling he shouldn't bother paying back.
With these, revenge is a sign of weakness, There's no worth paying evil with evil. as then we have become friends, helping each other in any possible way.Do not help people with the hope they'll pay you back.When you give,give freely, willingly and without grudge.
I hope there's someone probably will learn from my experience and life keeps rotating at every angle.

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