Values that are vital in my life #251 / Valores que son vitales en mi vida #251
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Greetings, dear ladies of Hive, I hope you're all doing well! 🌹
We grow and learn. There comes a time in our lives when we are responsible for how we live, how we do things, how we behave with others, and how we are when we're alone. Many times we are a reflection of what we saw in our parents and the adults who were close to us. Other times, we rebel against everything we've seen, and we begin to act as we see fit. Well, I really say all that because that's how I started when I took responsibility for my actions.
But we mature and learn certain things that can transform us in such a way that you begin to live according to what you believe.
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What are the three main values that guide your most important decisions in life, and which of these do you find challenging to practice consistently?
Personally, these three values, which I hold rooted in my heart, are a consequence of my faith in God. I can't imagine a truly Christian without these values. I see them as indispensable, although there are undoubtedly many more.
The values I talk about are:
Integrity:
Integrity is so important because it's about being honest in every way, both with those around us and with ourselves. A person of integrity will always be the same and will refuse to accept things that go against what they believe. They are also distinguished by being authentic and clear. That's why I always keep that word in mind in my daily life, because a person of integrity is definitely worthy of trust.
Respect: How important is respect in any personal relationship or anywhere? Respecting each other's decisions and thoughts is vital to healthy relationships, as is respecting the rules that exist wherever we go. Without respect, there is only disorder and disregard for others. Respect will always make us kind. Respect is letting those around us understand that their opinions and decisions are important.
Loyalty: How important it is to be loyal, loyal to your principles, beliefs, your marriage, your loved ones, including pets, hahaha. Loyalty is one of those values that are rarely found. For example, I've talked about integrity, and you can't have integrity without being loyal. Loyalty is essential in those relationships where the bonds are very deep, because a loyal person will be honest and will always be there through thick and thin.
Looking back on your life, what are the moments you are most proud of, where you stayed true to your core beliefs?
Wow, I could talk about several situations, but right now I can talk about one that made me grow in some way.
A few years ago when I got married I made a pact with God and my husband, for us marriage is sacred, when I promised before God that I would be faithful to my husband I did it with all my heart and I always carry that with me, but there was a time in my life when temptation knocked on my door, there was a boy at work who had impressed me and I struggled to not feel so attracted to him, I also thought it was not fair that I had these feelings being a married woman and with a beautiful marriage, the truth is that I stayed in prayer, asking God to help me not to be unfaithful to my husband, there was a time in my life when I had to tell my husband what I was feeling for that boy and thank God my husband did not take it badly, he did not judge me for what I was feeling, the best of all this is that having confessed to my husband what was happening brought us closer and saved me from possibly ending my marriage madly, at that moment I had to be loyal And integrate, and believe me, dear ladies, it was the best.
This concludes my participation, dear ladies. Thank you, my friend @trucklife-family, for this week's questions. They are truly profound and give us much to reflect on 🌹🤗
Thank you for reading and for your support. May the Creator bless you generously.🙏

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¡Saludos queridas damas de Hive, espero y se encuentren muy bien! 🌹
Uno va creciendo y va aprendiendo, llega un momento de nuestras vidas que somos responsables de como vivimos, como hacemos las cosas, como nos comportamos con los demás y como somos cuando estamos solos, muchas veces somos un reflejo de lo que vimos en nuestros padres y en adultos que estuvieron cerca de nosotros, otras veces somos rebeldes a todo eso que hemos visto, y empezamos a actuar según como nosotros mejor nos parezca, bueno realmente digo todo eso porque así empecé yo cuando me hice responsable de mis actos.
Pero uno va madurando y conociendo ciertas cosas que pueden llegar a transformarnos de tal manera que empiezas a vivir según lo que crees.
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¿Cuáles son los tres valores principales que guían sus decisiones más importantes en la vida y cuál de esos encuentras desafiante practicar de manera consistente?
Personalmente estos tres valores que tengo arraigados en mi corazón son consecuencia de mi fe en Dios, no me imagino a alguien verdaderamente cristiano sin estos valores, yo los veo indispensables, aunque sin duda alguna hay muchos más.
Los valores de los que hablo son:
La Integridad:
La integridad es tan importante porque se trata de ser honesto en todos los sentidos, tanto para los que nos rodean como para uno mismo, la persona integra siempre va a ser igual, y rehusará aceptar cosas que vayan en contra de lo que cree, además se distingue por ser autentica y clara, por eso, esa palabra la mantengo siempre presente en mi día a día, porque definitivamente una persona integra es digna de confiar.
Respeto: Que tan importante es el respeto en cualquier relación personal o en cualquier lugar, respetar las decisiones y los pensamientos de cada quien es vital para relacionarnos saludablemente, así como también el respetar las normas que existen en cualquier sitio a donde vamos, sin respeto, solo hay desorden y desconsideración hacia los demás, el respeto siempre nos hará amables, respetar es darle entender a los que nos rodean que sus opiniones y decisiones son importantes.
La lealtad: Que importante es ser leal, leal a tus principios, creencias, a tu matrimonio, a tus seres más queridos, incluyendo mascotas jejeje, la lealtad es uno de esos valores que poco se encuentran, por ejemplo yo he hablado de integridad, y no se puede ser íntegro sin ser leal, la lealtad es imprescindible en esas relaciones donde los vínculos son muy profundos, porque la persona leal, será honesta y siempre estará allí en las buenas y en las malas.
¿Mirando hacia atrás en su vida cuales son los momentos en los que se siente más orgullosa, donde se mantuvo fiel a sus creencias fundamentales?
Wow podría hablar de varias situaciones, pero en este momento puedo hablar de una que me hizo crecer de alguna manera.
Hace algunos años cuando me casé hice un pacto con Dios y con mi esposo, para nosotros el matrimonio es sagrado, cuando prometí delante de Dios que iba a serle fiel a mi esposo lo hice de todo mi corazón y eso lo llevo siempre conmigo, pero hubo un momento de mi vida que la tentación toco mi puerta, había un chico en mi trabajo que me tenía impresionada y yo luchaba para no sentirme tan atraída por él, además pensaba no es justo que yo tenga estos sentimientos siendo una mujer casada y con un matrimonio hermoso, lo cierto del caso es que me mantuve en oración, pidiendo a Dios que me ayudara a no serle infiel a mi esposo, hubo un momento de mi vida en que le tuve que contar a mi marido lo que estaba sintiendo por aquel chico y gracias a Dios mi esposo no lo tomo a mal, No me juzgó por lo que yo estaba sintiendo, lo mejor de todo esto es que el haberle confesado a mi marido lo que estaba pasando nos unió más y me salvo a mí de posiblemente terminar locamente con mi matrimonio, en ese momento tuve que ser leal e integra y créanme queridas damas ha sido lo mejor.
Hasta aquí mi participación queridas damas, gracias amiga @trucklife-family por las preguntas de esta semana, son realmente profundas y mucho para reflexionar 🌹🤗
Gracias por leer y por tu apoyo, el Creador te bendiga generosamente
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Integrity, respect, loyalty, those aren’t just big words rather they are habits you live, especially when things get messy. And sharing that moment of temptation at work? That takes guts. Owning your feelings, praying through them and choosing to be honest with your husband, it is raw, real and beautifully honest. That blend of vulnerability and conviction is something you carry into every choice.
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Greetings, dear, thank you so much for your message. You're truly kind. The truth is that sometimes we find ourselves in difficult situations, but the best thing is always to remain true to our values and beliefs.
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You are very right 👍
Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal and brave story 💕 The honesty you showed with your husband in a moment of temptation is incredibly admirable 🙌 It's a powerful reminder of how staying true to our values can lead to a deeper connection and an even stronger marriage ✨
Oh, honey, that's right. Sometimes we have to be brave, especially when we value our personal relationships, and being true to our beliefs is essential.
Best regards, linda, thanks for leaving your comment.😊🌺
You done the right thing in communicating with you husband , when you develop feelings for another and also shown how loyal you are. Honest communication is so important for any relationship to thrive.
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thank you 😄
That's right, being honest and having good communication is essential. True relationships are the ones that last, where honesty is key no matter what.
Thank you for your comment and for this week's questions.@trucklife-family 🤗🌹