A Quiet Engagement
Engagement - If you wanted to get married someday, would you propose to your partner or would you prefer your partner to propose to you? If you were the one proposing, how would you do it? If you wanted someone to propose to you, how would you want them to propose?
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Marriage is the legal or traditional union of two individuals with a common purpose for mutual cohabitation and existence.
If I want to marry, I would prefer that my partner propose to me. This is because I love being pampered. I like hearing those sweet words that gladden the heart. In the " Pick a song that makes you feel alive and thriving " contest today on the Alive front end, I found an acapella song by an artiste “US The Duo”. That song left me wanting to walk straight to the altar for a wedding vow. The lyrics were so powerful and embellishing. So, my partner proposing with such words will fill me with a sense of belonging, feeling secure and loved. It will also raise my confidence to say, yes, he proposed.
On the other hand, I wouldn’t want to be the one proposing, but if, because of culture or custom, I am to do that. I do not like making shows or publicity stunts. I would want to visit the person, and while escorting me, I will propose.
I remember when my husby proposed to me, he carefully delivered the message in my father's house, just the two of us sitting at the dining table. He brought out the ring and proposed while we were at the dining table, discussing. I felt good, with his words, I was flabbergasted. I love that idea of doing it in my father's house with just the two of us. Though my mum, with her eagle eye, caught us. After he left, I went straight to her room and reported myself.
Therefore, for me, proposals are a great way to share your heartfelt message of the possibility of a union with someone. Exaggerating it and making a fuss over it for me is a no-no, since it can also be terminated. Hence, one needs to be careful during that period.
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Nowadays, people want to show off every bit of their lifestyle, including engagement proposals. Oftentimes, these engagements do not lead to marriage. So, why publicise it? Sometimes, when it happens, they will slip into depression or get traumatized heavily.
In conclusion, all that glitters is not gold. I always opted for privacy instead of publicity in my affairs, and in engagements, I prefer a quiet one.
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!LOL Nothing gets past your mom
Yep, and I've realized that it has become so normalized that when someone doesn't post about those kinds of events, people find it strange.
Yes, because people want to follow standards that is not the best especially in such settings.
They want to trend , therefore they do just as others forgetting that all roada do not lead to Rome. Some does lead to pain.
Because others may have the nerve to withstand the outcome whether positive or negative but the wannabe might not have the nerves to withstand such sour moments.
It then becomes a big issue if it turns south .