Ladies of Hive Community Contest #261/Job opportunity

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You were offered a job by an overseas firm in a country you've always wanted to visit. However, you cannot take your immediate family (spouse and kids) with you until two years later. Would you grab the opportunity? Share your thoughts, please.

It is everyone wish to get a good paying job in a good company and especially the country you love most. As we all know job sometimes does not give us favorable condition but when consider somethings, we accept it why waiting for a better job.

In this case now, it is really hard to make decision because even your wife, husband, children relatives may pressure you to accept the job without minding what the outcome will be. I need to think now, moving abroad to for this job and stay for 2 years before coming back to see my family, will it bring blessing or disaster?. Will my wife/husband leave to another person?, What if any of them fall sick, will I get information on time to render assistance they need?

There is so much to consider before accepting the job. For me, I won't accept the job because it will really break my family love, peace and spiritual health. I will prefer to get another job in my country while waiting for a new job that will allow me to go with my family.

I know this my decision doesn't sound well to many, it is really my choice in this contest. If anyone in my family have this opportunity and decide to go ,I won't stop the person to go. It is individual choice and decision. One man food is another man's poison.
Many families today has been scattered because of the man or woman working abroad or living far from home. The emotional trauma and mental health is what I'm considering here.

Finally, living abroad because of job is a personal decision. Everyone deciding to accept have to count the cost before going so that he will will not make money his or her family will not eat.

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Considering emotional trauma and mental health when considering a job opportunity abroad is important and as you say it is a personal decision. Have a nice evening,
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Family comes first indeed. It's hard to be away from the ones we love.

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I could not see myself parting from my family for any extended length of time either. It would be a high price for me to personally pay and won't benefit our unity as a family for a mere material benefit.
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I didn't know many will share my thought on this. I appreciate your kind words, it's really encouraging

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