Offence Will Come Just Don’t Let It Stay

Good dey everyone how is your day going over there it me @belion01

One thing I’ve learned in this life is that we can’t run away from people and as long as were dealing with people offence will always be part of it. Somebody go talk anyhow treat you wrong, or just do something that go pain you. That’s life

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I used to take things very personal If someone annoy me I go carry it on my head thinking about it all day. Sometimes I go even plan what I should have said or done But at the end of the day na me dey suffer The person don forget but I still dey boil

One day I just asked myself Why am I letting people control how I feel like this That question change a lot for me. I realized that sometimes, people offend you without even knowing. And even when they do it knowingly, it's not worth giving them free space in your head.

Now, I still get annoyed sometimes I be human too. But the way I handle it now don change. I pause, I breathe, I think well. I try not to react fast. I don learn say forgiveness is for my own peace, not for them. Even if I go still give you distance, I forgive and free my heart.

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I also dey watch myself well. I try not to offend others, and if I do, I say sorry quick. Nobody perfect, but we fit try to be better.

So my advice No carry offence like luggage. Protect your peace. Offence will come, but don’t let it stay. Life too short abeg